Ok, I always thought that the cardinal rule of dating/meeting someone was that you weren’t supposed to show the crazy until about 3 months into a relationship or even from meeting anyone for that matter. As you all know I joined the world of online dating, well again there were some really nice people that I had met. But recently its like the dating world has another agenda, to bring on the weirdos and crazy. I know i’m not one to talk, since i’m a little out there too, dorky and nerdy but I know better than to show my crazy at first email.
I’m not going to go into detail about what had occurred, but there is a slight reason why I don’t like to tell people what I had majored in in college merely for the fact that sometimes I get an “oh okay, well thats interesting” or “what are you analyzing me now?” For those that don’t know, I have a masters in Psychology with a concentration in addictive behaviors (yea, exactly). Anyway there was a situation that had occurred where communication wasn’t being had (we didn’t speak for a few days and all hell broke loose). Then the crazy came out and it wasn’t me that did it. The person emailed saying that I had forgotten about them and I responded no because I’m not consistently checking emails while I’m at work and I was busy the past few days. Yea that’s when the crazy came out. I got a response saying so this is how it’s going to be. You’re going to be way too busy for me and you don’t want to talk to me. I, of course thought that this was a joke and responded as such and that made it worse. The response was similar to getting a gremlin wet and they told me that I broke their heart and crushed their dreams of the happily ever after. That’s when I got the CODE RED CODE RED siren.
I know us girls are like that but damn we don’t show that level of crazy until the time is right. And in seriousness you really can’t fix that level of crazy. But that’s not going to stop me from continuing my journey in this whole dating world.
until next time,