Happy thanksgiving to all those who celebrate this holiday. The content of this holiday is to show gratitude for anything and everything in ones life. As well for friends and family to come together and give thanks. I love this concept but at the same time I think its bull. Yeah thats right I said it bull. Why you might ask? I think that every day we should be thankful and greatful for the people in our lives; those who have stayed or those who have left. It should be important to show this type of love and/or support to these people so they can feel that they are worth it and accepted as they are.

There shouldnt be just one day to express this; only due to the next day the feeling of gratitude to over looked when people go shopping for black friday. Speaking of black friday shopping, im going to give my 2 cents in this matter. People are complaining that some stores are opening at 6pm on this wonderful thanksgiving day and that these same people have to leave their dinner and go to work and blah blah blah.  First of all be thankful that you are lucky to have a job because not everyone does this time of year, secondly you work in retail what do you expect, dont come down my throat on this because ive worked in retail and understand that we could not get off during this season because of shoppers. And finally get over yourselves you do not see any doctors, nurses, police officers, emts, firefighters or other health care workers and civil workers complaining that they have to work and they are the ones that help care for people and make sure the streets are safe or make sure if you deep fry the turkey and get burned that the house doesnt burn down and that your secomd degree burns are treated. So please and honesty get over it its not that much of a sacrifice and if you didnt like it to begin with then quit its simple because I can guarantee that someone else that needs a job would not complain about working a holiday.

So with all of that said, I hope that everyone has a happy and safe thanksgiving. 

This weekend was my best friend’s 30th bday weekend at AC. It was an awesome time from watching the light show at the Tropicana to a 30 second stand in at a Karaoke bar. Gambling was completed, some lost, some broke even and some won. Dinner on Sat was at a place called Ruth Chris; and OH.EM.GEE its money worth spent, it was like a party in my mouth, there are no words to describe the enjoyment of the food that was served. It was perfection, that is all.

One thing that was always the topic of conversation was the way most people were dressed. Now from the group that was there, 3 guys and 3 girls. From those guys age ranged from 28-35 and from us girls 28-30, from us 3 are single and one in a relationship and the others 2 are married; this gives you the range and mind set of us there, so you get the idea. Now, from the people that we’ve seen along the way were women ranging from ages 23-35 in short short outfits with heels that were so high that they couldn’t even walk in; and when i say short, if most of the girls bent over their hoo-ha would be in display, and the low cut one wrong move and it would be boobs galore for all t see. Now I’m not really one to talk because I may have been that girl that let her boobs be put on display, but half of the time it wasn’t my fault since i was cursed with a slightly bigger rack than most and most shirts do not fit well as it should. It was when I started getting hit on creepy people and hearing the cheesiest pick up lines or having them look at me below the neck line that they were interested in talking to my boobs instead of me. I then changed the way i dressed and found those little lace things to put on the bar so the gap doesn’t look as if one is trying to hard.

Anyway back to my rant, those girls, seriously! goal accomplished for getting a guys attention, but one thing, do not complain that creepers, assholes, jackass’, douche nozzles, douche bags and other types of guys, hit on you and all you want is a “nice guy” or a “gentleman” to talk to, they are there, but feel out of their league when trying to approach you. Now I’m not bashing on people and I can first hear people thinking “or you’re prob jealous because you don’t have a body like that” or “you’re just jealous”; honestly there was one point in my life that I was that thin and could have dressed like that, but I didn’t and i won’t. The other girls that I was with, had the same take, most was how their feet would feel at the end of the night in those heels, or that they want the attention (if the jealousy factor is what you’re thinking, nope because if they wanted to they would wear dresses like that and if they could walk in heels they would too). I am not a judgmental person, but I guess I was raised differently or hung out with a different crowd of people, but i was more embarrassed for them than anything. Its like me saying “yup this is what women have come to in order to get noticed” or “this is what my guy wants me to wear” COME ON, whatever happened to the mystery of the chase or leaving things up to the imagination to how one would look like behind closed doors?
Again like I said, I’m just different and  have a different mind set when it comes to clothing and what can be worn in public.

On another note, I saw the second movie of the Hunger Game- Catching Fire and it was AWESOMENESS! I highly recommend to go and see it!

I hope you enjoyed my random rant. Like I said before this is my opinion on the matter and you may or may not agree with it and that’s ok. Everyone is entitled to have an opinion/say in anything, this is just how I feel about it.
Until next rant.
Stephanie

Welcome to my blog!

Here you will enjoy my random rants about anything and everything that is currently going on in my life. Well not in too much detail; there needs to be some things let to the imagination. So I hope you enjoy my randomness.

Side note, I am an aspiring author and in process of writing a book. I’ll throw in little teasers here and there to give a little peek at whats to come, when it will be out and all that jazz.

Enjoy,

Stephanie

Soooo, I havent written on here in a while. My bad. But to give an update, I’ve been writing, doing school work and working so i’ve been busy. Last weekend I made a decision that I know is going to change many outcomes in my life. I told my parents that I was going to be moving back in with them. I know, i’m 29 years old and have been living on my own for the past 3 years; but sometimes you gotta make choices thats going to help you out in the long run. With this, I know that i’ll be able to save money and look for that condo/house and be able to move out of PA and go down south where I’ve always wanted to go. Since I was little i’ve always wanted to move to FL, but now my visions are NC, SC, GA or AL. Which one, I haven’t decided yet. This is one step in the right direction. Well thats all the update I have for now. 

There are different things that I can accept from people and different things that I can tolerate from them as well. One thing though that pisses me off is when people take credit for my accomplishments. Such as saving to be able to live out in my own, get into graduate school, get a new job, even a new car. I haven’t talked with this person in a very long time but they are friends with my family, and of course my family and friends are proud of me and of everything that ive accomplished thus far. So of course they make a comment that it’s because of them that ive been able to do everything that ive done so far. Naturally im pissed off but you know what. If saying that is going to make you feel better then fine, but everyone knows the truth and all you ever did was encourage me to drink and to go for one night stands, which I never did because im not that type of girl. I’m not one to judge either, if that’s what you like to do then fine but me personally it’s not my style.
I will never understand to why it’s so special for people to make it a point that it’s all because of them that someone is successful or accomplished. But whatever.

Ok, as I was catching up on another blog that I read (Dearauthor.com); since I love to see the thoughts that others have on different books to add to my to be read list on good reads. There was a post that I came across, it showed an author plagiarized most of their book with two authors that I love to read. Words cannot even describe what I feel about the situation. 

I feel awful for authors Jamie McGuire and Tammy Webber who’s work was used to help another one succeed. As an aspiring author myself, finding a story line is hard, but that is what makes it yours. You do not need to copy and past others Ideas to make it your own, thats just wrong and illegal. 

Ugh, I guess this is why some people like taking the easy way out in life, but in the end; the authors have huge fans, that have read their books many many times and fall in love with their characters. I hope to be as successful as these authors to the point where my future readers will fall in love with my characters and can tell when my story has been used unlawfully. 

After a lot of thinking and debating, I’m taking a chance to start doing something that I’m passionate about, writing. Now I may not be grammatically correct in most things, but who cares as long as the point gets across right? 

So, I hope you enjoy all of my random rants, pointless ideas and my random emotional thinking.